The Standard (Part 4)

Pastor Rocklyn E. Clarke - Sunday February 3, 2008

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V Introduction
* Bible Reading 1/27 - 2/2: Ex 4:1 - Ex 17:7; Mat 18:1 - 22:33; Psalm 22:19 - 27:6; Prov 5:15 - 6:26
> Review
V New Material
> Preparation
> Misc
V The Standard - Mat 5 - 7
* Surpass the righteousness of the Scribes and Pharisees - break out of your comfort zone - don't settle for church tradition.
V Your Anger - Mat 5:21-26 (continued)
* Unequally Yoked - 2Cor 6; Deut 22:9-11
* Obedience better than sacrifice - 1Sam 15:22-23
V Settle Disputes - Mat 5:25-26
* Reject the pride that often accompanies anger.
* Harmony - Rom 12:16-21; 1Pet 2:11-25 (note 1Cor 7:21); 1Pet 4:12-19
V How will we apply this?
* Encourage one another to follow Jesus' reconciliation process.
* Don't gossip!
* Forgive
* Restore!
V Restoration - Gal 6:1-2
V Forgiving people who've sinned against you
* Seven times - Luke 17:3-4
* Unmerciful servant - Mat 18:21-35
V Extending God's forgiveness to penitent brothers and sisters
V Confession
* To the Lord - Psalm 32; Psalm 51
* Greek - omologew - homologeo - "to say the same thing"
V In the ministry of John the Baptist
* Confession was an essential part of John's Baptism - Mat 3:6
* Note Jesus had nothing to confess - Mat 3:13-15
V History
* Catholic Church
* Martin Luther
* Protestantism
* To each other - James 5:13-16;
* For forgiveness - 1John 1:8 - 2:2
* Extending forgiveness - John 20:19-23
* Spiritual Recovery Team
V Restore each other!
* In your life groups
* Practice confession
* Extend God's forgiveness to one another
V Sexual Sin - Mat 5:27-30
V Adultery begins with lust - Mat 5:27-28
V Exegetical Question:
* Where does the danger of adultery begin?
* Desiring to commit the act.
* Looking with lustful intent is a danger sign on the way to sexual sin.
* Man looks on the outside, but God looks at the heart.
V Get rid of anything that causes you to sin so that you don't end up in hell. - Mat 5:29-30
V Exegetical Question:
* Why should you get rid of whatever causes you to sin?
* Because your sins can lead you to hell. - 1Cor 6:9-20
* Right eye - What are you looking at?
* Right hand - What are you touching?
V Homiletical Idea
* Sexual sin lies at the end of a chain of events. Avoid it by doing whatever it takes to break the chain.
V The chain of events
V Arousal - eyes, ears, touch
V Who controls your experience of pleasure? - Luke 9:23-25
* Is it you?
* Is it God?
* Access
* Action
V The behaviors
* Seducing
* Hooking Up
* Being Seduced
V Breaking the chain
* Avoid arousal
V Limit access
V Establish and maintain boundaries
* No more booty calls.
* No more dating on the DL.
* No more hanging out in someone else's apartment.
* Stop taking action
* Your Spouse - Mat 5:31-32
* Your Word - Mat 5:33-37
* Your Rights - Mat 5:38-42
* Your Enemies - Mat 5:43-48
V Your Reputation
* Alms (Giving) - Mat 6:1-4
* Prayer - Mat 6:5-15
* Fasting - Mat 6:16-18
V Your Property
* Accumulating - Mat 6:19-21
* Stinginess - Mat 6:22-23
* Lifestyle - Mat 6:24-25
* Kingdom First - Mat 6:26-34
* Your Observations - Mat 7:1-6
V Final Points
* Look to the Father for whatever you need - Mat 7:7-11
* Treat others the way you want to be treated - Mat 7:12
* Embrace the restriction of the Kingdom life - Mat 7:13-14
* Be careful whom you follow - Mat 7:15-23
* Practice what Jesus preaches - Mat 7:24-27
V Discussion Questions / Topics (based on the indicated scriptures)
V Group A: Mat 5:25-26
* Are you involved in any ongoing disputes right now?
* Are you in danger of facing some penalty if you don't settle things?
* Has your pride gotten in the way of settling an issue recently?
V Group B: Psalm 32; Psalm 51
* Have you ever put off acknowledging some area of sin in your life?
* Have you ever had the experience that David describes in Psalm 32?
* Have you ever cried out to God about some sin in your life?
V Group C: Mat 3:1-6; James 5:13-16; 1John 1:5 - 2:2
* Did you confess your sins at your baptism?
* Have you ever confessed your sins to another believer? What happened? How often do you confess to others?
* Have you ever sought God's forgiveness without confessing your sins?
V Group D: John 20:19-23; Gal 6:1-2
* Have you ever heard someone else's confession?
* Have you ever extended God's forgiveness to someone according to John 20:19-23?
* Have you ever restored a brother or sister according to Gal 6:1-2?
* How are you going to use your "license to restore" from now on?
V Witnessing Activities For This Week's Life Group Meetings
* Make sure everyone in your life group has a prayer partner.
* Pick a base of operations as a focus for your group's outreach ministry.
* Plan a social event for your group to which you can invite some of the unbelievers you've been praying for.