The Standard (Part 3)

Pastor Rocklyn E. Clarke - Sunday January 27, 2008

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V Introduction
* Bible Reading 1/20 - 1/26: Gen 41:17 - Ex 3:33; Mat 13:24 - 17:27; Psalm 18:1 - 22:18; Prov 4:1 - 5:14
> Review
V New Material
> Preparation
V The Standard - Mat 5 - 7
* Surpass the righteousness of the Scribes and Pharisees - break out of your comfort zone
V Your Anger - Mat 5:21-26 (continued)
V Prioritize reconciliation over religious activity - Mat 5:23-24
V A brother/sister who sins against you - Mat 18:15-20
* Stage 1 - Confront one on one - Luke 17:3
* Stage 2 - Add two or three witnesses
V Stage 3 - Tell the church
* For our purposes: life group, or life group leaders
* Invite him/her to meet with a representative body.
* Elders who sin are rebuked publicly - 1Tim 5:19-20
V Stage 4 - Excommunication
V Withdrawing fellowship
* Hand over to Satan- 1Cor 5; 1Tim 1:18-20
* Don't associate with immoral "believers". - 1Cor 5:9-13
* Wheat and Weeds - Mat 13:24-43
V When someone tells you something confidential:
* about themselves - confidentiality unless a life is in danger
V about someone else
* Beware gossip - Prov 18:8; Prov 26:22; 2Cor 12:20
* Follow Eph 4:22-32
* Shut it down - tell the victim
V Repentance
V The wrong way - Nick Leeson: "I'm sorry".
* From 1992, Leeson made unauthorized speculative trades that at first made large profits for his employer, £10 million which accounted for 10% of Barings' annual income. He earned a bonus of £130,000 on his salary of £50,000.
* Luck went sour, used a Barings error account to hide his losses.
* Barings Management also allowed Leeson to remain Chief Trader while being responsible for settling his trades, jobs that are usually done by two different people. This made it much simpler for him to hide his losses from his superiors.
* By the end of 1992, the account's losses exceeded £2 million.
* By the end of 1994 the losses had ballooned to £208 million.
* On January 16, 1995 Leeson placed a short straddle (an options trading strategy) in the Singapore and Tokyo stock exchanges, essentially betting that the Japanese stock market would not move significantly overnight.
* January 17, 1995 - the Kobe earthquake hit early in the morning on January 17, sending Asian markets, and Leeson's investments, into a tailspin.
* Leeson attempted to recoup his losses by making a series of increasingly risky new investments, this time betting that the Nikkei Stock Average would make a rapid recovery - it didn't.
* February 23, 1995 - Realizing the gravity of the situation, Leeson left a note reading "I'm Sorry" and fled. Losses eventually reached £827 million (US$1.4 billion), twice the bank's available trading capital.
* February 26, 1995 - After a failed bailout attempt, Barings was declared insolvent.
* March 2, 1995 - Leeson was arrested and extradited back to Singapore after fleeing to Malaysia, Thailand and finally Germany,
* Sentenced to six and a half years in Changi Prison in Singapore.
* 1996 - published autobiography, "Rogue Trader" while in prison.
* 1999 - released from prison, having been diagnosed with colon cancer, which he has survived despite grim forecasts at the time.
* 1999 - the book was made into a film of the same name starring Ewan McGregor and Anna Friel.
V The right way
* State what you did that was wrong.
* State why it was wrong.
* Take responsibility for it.
* Make restitution if possible.
* Don't demand forgiveness from anyone.
* Forgiveness - Mat 18:21-35; Luke 17:4
V Restoration - Gal 6:1-2
* Spiritual Recovery Team
* Unequally Yoked - 2Cor 6; Deut 22:9-11
* Obedience better than sacrifice - 1Sam 15:22-23
V Settle Disputes - Mat 5:25-26
* Reject the pride that often accompanies anger.
* Harmony - Rom 12:16-21; 1Pet 2:11-25 (note 1Cor 7:21); 1Pet 4:12-19
V How will we apply this?
* Encourage one another to follow Jesus' reconciliation process.
* Don't gossip!
* Forgive
* Restore!
V Your Desires - Mat 5:27-30
* Sexual purity
* No more booty calls.
* No more dating on the DL.
* No more hanging out in someone else's apartment.
* Your Spouse - Mat 5:31-32
* Your Word - Mat 5:33-37
* Your Rights - Mat 5:38-42
* Your Enemies - Mat 5:43-48
V Your Reputation
* Alms (Giving) - Mat 6:1-4
* Prayer - Mat 6:5-15
* Fasting - Mat 6:16-18
V Your Property
* Accumulating - Mat 6:19-21
* Stinginess - Mat 6:22-23
* Lifestyle - Mat 6:24-25
* Kingdom First - Mat 6:26-34
* Your Observations - Mat 7:1-6
V Final Points
* Look to the Father for whatever you need - Mat 7:7-11
* Treat others the way you want to be treated - Mat 7:12
* Embrace the restriction of the Kingdom life - Mat 7:13-14
* Be careful whom you follow - Mat 7:15-23
* Practice what Jesus preaches - Mat 7:24-27
V Discussion Questions / Topics (based on the indicated scriptures)
V Group A: Mat 5:21-24 (from last week)
* Are you angry with someone? If so, whom?
* Have you used harsh language with anyone this week?
* How are you dealing with your anger?
* Do any of your brothers and sisters have anything against you?
* What was the last thing you did to reconcile with a brother or sister?
V Group B: Mat 18:15-20; 1Cor 5; 1Tim 1:18-20 (from last week)
* Discuss your track record in obeying Mat 18:15.
* Discuss your track record in obeying Mat 18:16.
* Have you ever seen Mat 18:17 practiced? How did you feel about it?
* Do you know anyone who calls himself or herself a believer, but is sexually immoral, greedy, an idolator, a slanderer, a drunkard, or a swindler? If so, what kind of relationship do you have with this person?
V Group C: Prov 18:8 / Prov 26:22; Eph 4:22-32
* Have you gossiped this past week?
* Have you heard any gossip this past week? How did you respond?
* Have you ever informed someone of something that someone else said about him/her? Did you tell them who said it?
V Witnessing Activities For This Week's Life Group Meetings
* Make sure everyone in your life group has a prayer partner.
* Pick a base of operations as a focus for your group's outreach ministry.
* Plan a social event for your group to which you can invite some of the unbelievers you've been praying for.