These things will keep you out of the Kingdom - Eph 5:5-7
Stop thinking about the things of the flesh - Rom 8:5-6; Rom 13:14
Put them off until later (e.g. delay that first drink/hit/sexual encounter)
Stay away from problem situations
e.g. young couple who wouldn't take advice and got pregnant
Base your decisions on God's Word rather than on personal pain relief
Spiritual: "What does the Father want me to do today?"
Carnal: "What will make me feel good today?"
Be a conduit for God's light - Eph 5:8-21
Expose deeds of darkness - Eph 5:8-14
Find out what the Spirit wants - Eph 5:8-10
Pray
Read your Bible
Set your mind on what the Spirit wants - Rom 8:5-6
Choose to focus your thoughts on these things
Live a life that shines light on darkness - Eph 5:15-21
Overcome temptation
Recognize that God is helping you - 1Cor 10:13; Heb 2:18
Faithfully hide God's Word in your heart - Psalm 119:9-11
Fight - Heb 12:3
Submit to spiritual authority - Heb 13:7; Heb 13:17
be accountable
be transparent
Guidelines for key roles we play
Wives
Husbands
Children
Masters (bosses)
Slaves (employees)
Rely on God's power - Eph 6:10-20
Your fight is not just for yourself!
Bring resurrection power to your brothers and sisters!
Help your brothers and sisters - Rom 15:14; Col 3:16; Heb 3:13; Heb 10:24-25
Your are your brother's / sister's keeper - Gal 6:1-2; James 5:19-20
Pray for your brothers and sisters
If, when you pray for someone, all you can pray is for God to bless him/her then you’re not maximizing your effectiveness. You must learn enough about the people you pray for to make your prayers for them effective.
Believe that you receive. Change the way you view (visualize) the people you pray for. Leaders must lead in prayer first!
Admonish and encourage your brothers and sisters
Don't leave this to the pastors!
We will always have new spiritually immature people coming church.
Some people develop defenses against the Bible because it's been used as a weapon against them in the past.
What to do when your brother fails
If your brother sins against you . . . - Mat 18:15-22
Restore your brother gently - Gal 6:1-5; 1John 5:1-18
Don't leave this burden to your pastors or life group leaders.
We are a fathering ministry.
Everyone must do 2Tim 2:2
Teach sanctification for disciple makers.
We focus on leaders!
The faithful must do more than just hold on;
They need to multiply themselves.
They must identify faithful people who they can mentor - 2Tim 2:2
You should either be mentoring someone, or praying for God to show you someone to mentor.
Doug Hall's "Chaos Code" ministry model
Steps
Observation
Positive Regard (fall in love with the people)
Relevant Communication
Meet Perceived Needs
Meet Basic Needs
Multiplication
This has many applications:
Breaking into new cultures / sub-cultures
Breaking into new groups within your own culture / sub-culture
Ministering to your brothers and sisters
The fruit of your victory
Not because of your righteousness - Deut 9:1-8
Only the faithful / believing will enter God's rest - Heb 4:1-11
Don't miss God's grace - Heb 12:1-29
Sanctification: Becoming like the Father
Hang out with God like Enoch. - Gen 5:21-24; Heb 11:5
Resurrection and Faith
Faith is essential to pleasing God - Heb 11:6
Supernatural expectations - Heb 11:1 and rest of chapter
Glider pilot
Sources of lift: thermals, ridge lift, mountain wave, convergence
Glide ratios: 30:1; 50:1; 70:1
A very special glider: The Gimli Glider
Discussion Questions / Topics
Reflect on Eph 4:1-16
What works of service are you being prepared for?
What works of service would you like to be prepared for?
How can Life Church help to prepare you for your ministry?
Who has been a supporting ligament in your life?
For whom have you been a supporting ligament?
Reflect on Eph 4:17-32
Are you honest in what you say to other believers?
How well do you think you deal with anger in your life? How well do others think you deal with anger? Take this opportunity to get feedback from your life group members.
Is your speech normally wholesome or unwholesome? Would others agree with your assessment of yourself in this area?
Do you have any problems with stealing, bitterness, rage, anger, brawling, slander, or malice?
Reflect on Eph 5:1-21
What strategies have you found helpful in dealing with any of the issues mentioned in this passage (e.g. sexual immorality, impurity, greed, obscenity, etc.)?
Have you ever struggled with drunkenness or other forms of intoxication?
Describe a recent occasion when you came to a new understanding of what pleases the Lord.
Describe a situation in which you submitted to another brother or sister.
Reflect on Rom 15:14; Col 3:16; Heb 3:13; Heb 10:24-25
Describe a situation in which you instructed another brother or sister.
Describe a situation in which you allowed another brother or sister to instruct you.
Describe the last time that you encouraged one of your brothers or sisters.
Reflect on Gal 6:1-2; James 5:19-20
Have you ever faced a situation in which another brother or sister was caught in a sin? What did you do to help him/her?
Describe an occasion in which you carried a burden for another believer.
Reflect on Lev 19:31; Deut 18:9-14 (repeated from last week)
Have you ever been curious about any of the occult practices listed here?
Have you ever consulted a medium, spiritist, psychic, or "roots worker"?
Have you ever consulted your horoscope or astrological chart?
Have you ever experienced any spiritual difficulty as a result of occult activity?
Reflect on James 5:13-18; Eph 5:21 (repeated from last week)
Have you ever confessed any of your sins to another believer?
Have you established trusting relationships with other believers? Why or why not? How about with the believers in your life group? Why or why not?
What can the other members of your life group do to enhance your openness and transparency with them? What can you do?
Works Activities For This Week's Life Group Meetings (repeated from last week)
Review the current prayer partnerships in your life group.
Make sure that everyone has someone to pray with on a weekly basis.
These can be long-term assignments or your can rotate them.
If you rotate them, the assignments should last at least one month.
Review the list of people you are praying for in your life group.
Make sure that everyone knows who to pray for and how to pray for them.
Make sure that the people who need salvation are getting prayed for every day by the members of the group.
Review each person on the list of people you are reaching out to.
Has anyone invited him/her to lunch/dinner or some other informal activity along with at least one other life group member?
Has anyone invited him/her to a life group fun event?
Has anyone invited him/her to a life group meeting?